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Sip, Socialize, and Celebrate: How to Host a Trendy Tea Party

Updated: Jul 14, 2023


Let's talk tea! Discover the art of hosting an authentic summertime tea party: from history to activities, create unforgettable moments.


Photography by MADDIE KULIG

Where Does "Afternoon Teatime" Come From?


When we think "teatime" and "tea parties," our minds likely jump to scenes from Downton Abbey or Alice in Wonderland. As most people know, true teatime is more than just a beverage break; it symbolizes a lifestyle centered around relaxation and socializing. Afternoon teatime and tea parties have a rich history that embraces diverse cultures and spans across numerous countries. So before we discuss all the fun ways that you can host your own tea party, let's dive into the complex origins of this timeless tradition!


Unknown artist, Yale Center for British Art, Paul Mellon Collection

For centuries, the enigmatic art of tea production was shrouded in secrecy within the lush subtropical and tropical forests of Southeast Asia, particularly China, the ancestral home of the tea plant. Guarded zealously, the knowledge of tea cultivation remained confined to these hilly regions. However, as trade routes connected the lands of Asia with the Western world, tea began its momentous journey, eventually reaching the Middle East, Europe, Africa, and ultimately the shores of America. As tea migrated westward, the ceremonial customs surrounding this beloved beverage underwent remarkable transformations, adapting to the cultural norms of different times and places.


While the original tea ceremonies of the East remained meticulous and meditative rituals, tea consumption in the Western world evolved into the cherished tradition known as afternoon tea. Transformed into a casual daily respite or a regal social affair, afternoon tea for Westerners is now characterized by an assortment of savory delicacies and delectable sweets. In the colonies, tea-drinking customs mirrored those of the aristocracy overseas, until the Revolutionary War disrupted the flow of tea from the British East India Company. In the face of this, revolutionaries turned to herbal teas as substitutes. Once independence was won, the United States embraced British tea rituals once again.


"Tea on the Terrace"

Today, the American landscape is dotted with a wide range of venues where afternoon tea is served, each showcasing its unique interpretation of this beloved tradition. From historic homes to elegant trains, American teahouses, restaurants, and hotels present a rich tapestry of tea experiences, drawing inspiration from British, Russian, Japanese, Indian, or Chinese styles. In the United States, anything goes when it comes to afternoon tea. For example, the Southern afternoon tea stands as a lavishly adorned cousin to its British counterpart, exuding a sense of glamor. Alternatively, the teabar offers a tranquil ambiance with Asian-inspired aesthetics, featuring an extensive selection of teas.


The birth of the British Afternoon Tea Ceremony can be traced back to the Victorian Era. This aristocratic tradition stood in stark contrast to the "high tea" served during the same period in working-class households. The latter was a substantial meal consisting of cold meats, cheeses, and bread, enjoyed by men returning from factories or fields. Afternoon tea, on the other hand, transcended the realm of mere sustenance and transformed into a highly anticipated social event. Ladies did not gather for afternoon tea solely to indulge in food; rather, it provided a setting for socializing, catching up on gossip, discussing the latest trends and scandals, being seen in the right places among the right people, and, incidentally, sipping tea while nibbling on finger sandwiches or sweet biscuits.


“Afternoon Tea (The Gossips)” by John Everett Millais, 1889

Once this trend took hold, fashionable society embraced the tea party phenomenon, hosting gatherings to suit any occasion imaginable. Drawing room teas welcomed large groups, while intimate teas catered to a few close friends. Tea parties expanded beyond the confines of the home, taking place in gardens, at formal receptions, and even during outdoor activities like tennis matches and picnics. The rising middle classes enthusiastically adopted this social custom, discovering that tea provided an affordable means of entertaining multiple guests without incurring exorbitant expenses. A few pots of tea, complemented by simple tea-time treats such as crustless sandwiches, hot buttered toast, pastries, and cakes, were all that was needed to create an inviting atmosphere and meet the expectations of the occasion.


The evolution of afternoon tea and tea parties unveils a rich tapestry of cultural exchanges and social customs. From its humble origins in the distant tea plantations of Asia to the elegant salons of Victorian England, tea has transcended boundaries and continues to be cherished worldwide as a beverage that fosters connections, indulges the senses, and invites people to pause, savor, and enjoy the simple pleasures of life.


"Tea Time" by Miles Burkett Foster


Embracing the Elegance of Tea Parties: Indoor vs. Outdoor Celebrations


So what's the tea? Modern tea parties come in many styles and sizes. Our two favorite types? Indoor teatime parties and garden party-style outdoor tea parties.


Photography by MADDIE KULIG

Regardless of the setting, however you take your tea, both approaches have their unique charm and offer delightful experiences. Indoor tea parties provide an intimate and cozy atmosphere, perfect for celebrating birthdays or showers! Activities can include crafting tea sandwiches using ingredients from an English-style buffet, decorating tea cookies and cupcakes, or enjoying a loose leaf tea station with popular blends.


Nicol Floral Design flower wall "BELLA," Photography by RACHEL McGINN
Photography by MADDIE KULIG

Teatime in the backyard (otherwise known as garden parties) embrace the beauty of the outdoors and are a great way to get the kids outside, also minimizing the cleanup afterwards (because you never know, someone might spill the tea). For little ones, activities such as bounce houses, face painting, swimming in the pool, and old-fashioned backyard games can be enjoyed before or after teatime.


Outdoor tea parties are an opportunity to create a magical setting reminiscent of a royal garden party! It's a time to indulge in authentic sandwiches, delicious tea cakes, dainty macarons, and perhaps some flower-themed cupcakes! Because no tea party is complete without some sunny, refreshing florals. And for that essential finishing touch, consider adding a gorgeous floral wall by Nicol Floral Design, adorned with ethereal summertime or springtime blossoms, as a backdrop for your buffet or photo booth.


Nicol Floral Design flower wall "JUNE," Photography by FRANCESCA MICHETTI
Photography by MADDIE KULIG

While tea parties are often associated with children, they are equally enjoyable for adults! Whether it's a bridal shower, baby shower, mother's day celebration, or birthday party, hosting a tea party is a uniquely elegant and classy way to celebrate to any occasion! Gather your closest friends and loved ones, and spend a fun-filled afternoon sipping tea, savoring delicious treats, and enjoying each other’s company.


Photography by FEMINA PHOTO DESIGN
Photography by FRANCESCA MICHETTI


It's Tea Time at A Taste of Britain!


Located in Wayne at Eagle Village Shops, A Taste of Britain is a charming tea shop and restaurant, offering an authentic English tea experience. A Taste of Britain truly embodies the essence of British tradition! In fact, they recently hosted an extraordinary Coronation Tea Party in May, in honor of King Charles III!


This local gem captures the spirit of traditional tea gatherings, serving an unparalleled array of scratch-made delicacies. From tea sandwiches and frittatas to savory treats, buttery scones, and decadent desserts, their menu is a proper reflection of British culinary traditions. Their specialty is the full afternoon tea, a unique experience that will transport you back in time! A Taste of Britain also provides catering services and offers beautiful vintage China teacups, teapots, and tiered stands for rent.


Photography by RACHEL McGINN

A Taste of Britain has been delighting customers since its founding in 1991. Over the years, this cherished tea shop has nurtured a loyal following, which includes visitors like Nicol W. Segel from Nicol Floral Design. Nicol has been bringing her children to this beloved establishment for over two decades! From tea and scones to a diverse menu of refreshing salads, homemade soups, traditional sandwiches, and English specialties, A Taste of Britain's skilled team of teatime experts has crafted a unique menu for everyone! Their commitment to quality and authenticity is certainly evident in every flavorful bite.


Photography by RACHEL McGINN

Whether you choose to host a classy indoor teatime or a trendsetting tea party in the garden, the experience is sure to be delightful. So embrace the tradition, gather your loved ones, and create lasting memories while enjoying the finer things in life – a cup of tea and the company of friends!


Dundee Art Galleries and Museums Collection (Dundee City Council)

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